God's Grace
Just as cow's milk is not for the cow itself, but for others, so is the grace of God not for God, but is for all others (us).
If you want God's blessings, so be kind to smaller persons than yourself, then God would be kind. If you desire kindness, without being kind to others, this is unjust and disparaging to your knowledge.
The Gītā, that Arjuna could not get to hear the second time, that Gītā, we read and listen to everyday. That is God's exceptional kindness.
Upto date, all the saints that we have had, were by God's grace, liberated, knowers of the essence and lovers of God, and not so by their own efforts.
Achieving of the self evident Supreme Abode of God, does not come even by own actions, efforts and discipline but only by the grace of God.